I was a member of the class of 1986 at Canada’s National Fraternity, Phi Kappa Pi. I forged lifelong friendships and learned the foundation of living away from home whilst I shared a beautiful home with a number of like minded young men. Granted there was some partying that went on, but also EVERY man I went through that house with graduated and went on to become hard working productive members of society.
Recently, through a few bad decisions and an economic downturn, I was left with the need of a place to live. Luckily I was able to lean on the shoulders of my new brothers and they provided me with a roof over my head so that I could get back in shape and find my footing. Had my new brothers not been available to me, I do not know what might have become of me.
Fraternities are more than party houses. They help to teach new groups of young men skills and basic tenements of life when they leave home. And sharing that experience with a number of men serves to strengthen them and provide a foundation for the hard academic road ahead and then the highway of life.
I would ask before Adam Vaughan decides to ruin what has been mostly a personal growth organization over the decades with a much UNdeserved smack in the face, that he talk with a few ‘newbies’ and a couple legacies and see what fraternal living is all about.
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